Kissing is a good sing of love, but it has its own tips and methods. Here some tips about the secret of a perfect Kiss.
Set The Mood
Set the mood by treating her like a queen. Take care of her every need so she can just lay back and let the day’s stresses wash away. If it’s your first date, just relax, take your time and make the entire date all about her (which means you have to tell her stuff about you too!) Look, she wants to feel like a million dollars, so treat her as though she is.
Pick The Right Situation
Take her out to a restaurant, for a moonlight walk, or cook dinner at home. Whatever the situation, create an ambience that’s all about romance. Make sure the music is just right, give her your full attention, and if at all possible use candles! Candles are the secret-weapon of romantic guys everywhere. There isn’t anyone who doesn’t look mysterious, and glamorous by candlelight.
Sweet, Sweet, Breath And Soft, Soft, Lips
Guys, no one likes fish-breath! Or cigarette-breath come to that. Now wine-breath or chocolate-breath may just be OK, depending on the tastes of your partner, but you know what? To play safe, brush like a dentist! If you can’t do that, then always have breath fresheners with you–any brand as long as they are peppermint or spearmint–and don’t forget the lip balm.
Learn From The Masters
Too may guys dive straight in and have her pinned against the wall in three seconds flat. Look. She’s most likely very tentative so be tentative too! She’ll like that a lot. You must have watched the masters at work in those wonderful old classic movies starring Bogart and Cary Grant? It may take an entire 90 minutes to work up to THE kiss, but when it finally happens the sexual tension is just explosive! Well watch those movies again. Take note of the body language; the flashing eyes; the meaningful looks; the brushing of fingertips. What’s NOT being said is louder–and way sexier–than any porn movie!
Nuzzle Her Neck And Kiss Her Face
Why do so many guys miss this amazing ace card? Unlike guys (most) women are slow starters. They take a while to warm up, and this is sort of kissing foreplay. Spend some time “investing” in the kiss to come.
Kiss Her Lips Without Touching Them (The Non-Kiss)
Have you seen that movie called “Derailed” with Jennifer Aniston and Clive Owens, where he says he can kiss her lips without touching them? Well when women see that, about 80% of them hold their breath and shiver in anticipation (the other 20% scream: “get on with it why don’t you!”) I know it seems odd, but women love the promise, the potential and the frisson of anticipation; proof that sometimes the journey is better than the arrival
Press Your Body Against Hers (Gently).
Ok. So you’ve finally arrived at the moment. Now draw her to you gently, and press your entire body against hers. Gently now! This is about promise, not proof! Using the same principles as the “non-kiss,” this will tease, not terrorise her.
Go Gentle With That Tongue!
Why do guys think most women want a tongue sandwich? Sure use your tongue but use it teasingly. Don’t choke her with it, and don’t slobber all over her either! The tongue may say “passion, desire and virility” to you, but to her it says “whoa, waaay too much!” For a fool-proof kiss, follow her lead. In other words follow her tongue and then gently raise the bid.
Lips Open, Eyes Closed, And Say “Mmmm”
When you’re talking to her the eyes need to be fully opened, but for the kiss, closure is the way to go. Keep your lips a little open, firm and warm, and make quietly appreciative noises (not grunts, but rather the kind of sigh you’d make when sipping a fine wine–or supping a cold beer!)
Use Your Hands Wisely
What do you do with the hands? Well a little like the “non-kiss,” perfect the “non-grope.” Just skim your hands gently over her back, and then pull her to you firmly but gently. Again follow her lead. Match your pressure with hers. She’s already telling you all you need to know, if you only listen…
